I was one of the person to tell you those things, let me explain mysef if you want to read the reason why. I really like DeviantArt, but it's getting more vulgar by the second. The categores are flooded lewd selfies, poorly tken porn photos or just gynecological pics with absolutely 0 artistic value whatsoever. When I see that it saddens me, and when I see people encouraging that kind of posts, like you did, it makes me a little angry, if you treat DA like a Brothel or a cheap strip club, no wonder it's becoming a parody of itself, a bad no string attached dating site mixed with a porn blog....
Both ways lead to the same place..
Don't try too hard. Life is too short..